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Statistics say that fewer than half of Americans have a household budget. Kind of scary, isn’t it? As a result of our current recession, there’s a good chance that budgeting is becoming more common, as people are becoming more and more aware of their money (or lack thereof!).

With such a low number of people using budgets to control their spending, I have to wonder why budgeting isn’t more common amongst Americans. Is it that half of us are doing so well that it’s not necessary? Certainly not! Maybe it’s because many haven’t been taught to use a budget or that people just plain don’t know how. Whatever the case may be, it needs to be something that our society changes. Much of our current economic crisis may have been avoided if we’re collectively better with money, and at the foundation of that would be having and maintaining an accurate personal financial budget.

Not Everybody Loves Budgeting

My wife and I wrote up our first budget together 2 weeks after being married. Luckily I managed to marry a girl that is fantastic with money, so we enjoyed sitting down together to draw up the plan. First we wrote down what our combined net income came to be monthly; after, we listed each expected monthly expense and found out how much it cost us to live on a regular basis. After subtracting our monthly expenses from our monthly net income, we came up with a dollar figure that could be used for savings.

As I reflect on my experience drawing up my first budget with my wife, I have to laugh at the fact that I enjoy it so much! I mean, really- I know most people don’t enjoy it like I do. I love analyzing the numbers, figuring out how we can improve month to month, and working together with Alex (my wife) on setting goals that reflect our financial dreams. I understand that it’s odd to innately enjoy budgeting!

So in the spirit of helping to convince others that budgeting must be done, I again have to go back to the original question: Why don’t people like to budget?

Many, I feel, quickly connect budgeting money with negative emotion! A well-developed budget for them means restriction and lack of recreation; in essence, it means no fun.

Leisure Money Is Part of A Well-Balanced Budget

May I suggest that any well-written budget should include leisure money to maintain healthy levels of sanity amongst the masses. Alex and I decided on a dollar figure that we would set aside every single month for fun. That money must is used for eating out, bowling, skiing, the movies, going out for ice cream, and anything else we want to do together. We call this our “Date Fund,” and I believe it’s an absolute must for any couple. The benefit? You don’t feel guilty about spending money on yourself for entertainment when you’ve planned for it!

Our budget also provides us both with a separate “Leisure Fund,” enabling Alex to spend money on what she enjoys (clothes, iPods, etc.) and for me to spend money on what I like (basketball tickets, books, etc.). That dollar figure is a fixed amount for each of us per month to do as we please. If we don’t spend it all in the month it’s provided, we can save it and use it for something bigger and better the following month. Truly a “Leisure Fund” empowers both of us to spend our money on things we enjoy without feeling guilty for it.

As you decide to either start a budget or improve the one you’re currently using, take the time to include date money (for you and your significant other) and/or a “leisure Fund” for sanity’s sake.

A budget empowers if written the right way, and no budget is complete without those items. If you can remember the positive side to budgeting money (and there are many positives), you may find yourself enjoying it just as much as me!

Ashley here: We have a “dates” category in our budget too.  We also each get a fixed amount that is our own personal blow money.  It works really well for us.  I think a lot of people don’t make budgets because they don’t want to know the truth about the mess they are in.

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