An honest look at family finances
4 Dec
Have you ever re-gifted anything? Have you ever received something you knew was a re-gift?
I have re-gifted, but I don’t think I’ve ever given it as a present for an event, like birthday or Christmas. More like, “hey, my mom gave me this wallet and I don’t think I’m going to use it, do you want it?” I know I’ve received re-gifts but I can’t remember anything specifc now. I do know that it really cheapens the gift. It makes you feel like the person doesn’t really care. It’s the thought that counts, and a re-gift is the smallest amount of thought possible.
So here is my current re-gift dilemma. My sister in law has a couple of books on her Christmas wish list. We have already spent our budgeted amount on her and I happen to own one of the books on her list. It’s hard cover and in perfect condition. I’m very gentle on books. I hate when books get damaged in anyway.
Now I have no problem giving her this book. We have already bought her what we were going to buy her, so this book would be extra, not in lieu of a purchased present. It would allow other members of the family to spend their money on other stuff. It would only be a bonus.
Should we just give it to her now, rather than at Christmas? Either let her borrow it, or let her keep it, I don’t care which. Or give it to her for Christmas, thinking it’s more fun to get lots of presents at Christmas time.
What would you do?
Pic by: Kevin Dooley
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