An honest look at family finances
14 Oct
I got kinda overwhelmed the other day with everything in the news. I was feeling sorry that I ever watched the news. I was wishing I had no idea what was going on with economy and the election. I thought for a moment that was going to stop watching the news all together, that I just didn’t want to know any more. But I immediately thought “But then I wouldn’t know how bad things are.”
Think about that. I wouldn’t know things were bad if the news wasn’t telling me so.
Sometimes it hard to keep it all straight between what people are saying is your reality and your actual reality. Every time you turn on the news, they are telling you how bad it is. “It’s bad, it’s bad, it’s bad!” they chant. You start to feel bad, even if your life hasn’t changed a bit.
So clear your mind of everything you’ve heard on the news. Think about your actual life. If you hadn’t been told the economy was in bad shape right now would you even know about it?
For me, the biggest clue that the economy as a whole is struggling would be that my retirement accounts are down so much. But even so, if I saw that I don’t think I would immediately think “financial meltdown!”. It would probably prompt some research. But I don’t check my accounts everyday. I check them every few months when I think of it. So I might not even notice for a while. But I can’t spend that money for another 25 years, so the day to day value is of little consequence to my actual life.
Next would be all the houses that are for sale in my neighborhood. I would say 10 -20% of houses in my subdivision have a for sale sign in the front yard. That’s a lot! It might prompt me to take a look at the value of our house. It might not. But either way, we’re not selling. So the value of my house today really doesn’t matter.
Lastly, my husband’s overtime being cut is definitely something I would notice. Not today, but in a few months we will start to feel the pinch. But it’s not set in stone. It’s possible overtime may still be coming. So who knows, it might not end up affecting us as much as we fear. Our friend may still get laid off though, so that is a big deal, but it hasn’t been decided yet.
So all in all, I probably wouldn’t know that we are experiencing a “financial crisis”. I think those terms “crisis” and “meltdown” are the media’s terms and strictly for effect. Try not to get caught up in them. My retirement accounts are down, there are quite a few houses for sale in my neighborhood, my husband might have several light months at work, and I know someone who may be laid off. It does sound like an economy t87hat isn’t doing so hot. But does it sound like a meltdown?
That doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t watch the news or know what’s going on. Obviously, you should try to stay informed. But don’t let their idea of your reality replace your actual reality. If things are going well for you then enjoy that. Don’t feel guilty about it and don’t let the media tell you it’s not really happening.
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7 Responses for "Don’t let the news replace your reality"
This is a good post. My hubby and I were talking about this a few days ago; that if the media didn’t push the scare, we’d hardly notice it ourselves, and that maybe, just maybe, they’re over doing it a bit.
Amen to that!
I guess I would have maybe thought something was up… because my Hubby was laid off. But honestly this is a slow period for construction anyway, and if I didn’t know about all the stuff going on, the only thing that would have clued me in was that the unemployment amount went down.
I would not have thought things were ‘this bad’ though. I would have just thought that work will pick up like it always does.
Anyway, he’s working now. and now we know to save up some money for an emergency fund, so we can make it during the next layoffs. I mean, such is the nature of this business!
Que sera sera!
Alexia
Times are tough but one thing is for sure, markets are cyclical so in a few years we will be talking about why house prices are so expensive, is the stock market over valued….
In the meantime, save as much as you can!
I totally agree, though we’ve taken things a step further and don’t watch the news!! Instead, we choose to headline surf online and read what interests us. Favorite place to go for news is http://www.drudgereport.com as Matt always has the latest on what’s going on. Great post!
The media definitely sensationalizes what’s going on in the economy. I think the fear this creates just leads people to panic and makes things worse.
On the other hand, is ignorance bliss?
You know, I was just thinking that the other day - you know when you look around and see signs everywhere “Your car is at risk from thieves”, “Smoking kills”, what if you’re at risk from this disease you never heard of? What if the economy collapses? What if a hurricane comes?
You can’t plan for every variable. You can’t live your life paralysed by fear. It’s sad that society thrives on being scared of everything.
Great post Ashley!
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